Happy experience .

My birthday party.

Attending a wedding when I was four years old.

Unpleasant experience.

Beaten by a neighbor's child.

My grandmother death.

Right I have enjoyed 

Right to education, good housing .

People who have influenced me positively

Mum,  aunt and the teachers

The experiences that made me happy are the childhood games with peers, art and craft lessons, painting, games and sports at school and clay moulding.

The unpleasant experiences were mockery from some teachers and peers, denial to participate in singing games and choir and being caned.

The person who had the greatest positive impact in my life was my teacher of English. The one who had a negative impact was my art and craft teacher and singing games trainer.

The negative experiences made me feel inferior and unsure of myself thus impacting negatively on my academics and participation in sports as well. The positive experiences inspired me to achieve even greater things and gain confidence.

Currently, from my childhood, there are no unresolved issues because I got to let go off those teachers and peers who intensly mocked me. I do not project on my learners. I treat them fairly and with love.

I enjoyed the right to education, play, medication, security and shelter. I was denied the right to food and play sometimes, respect, fair treatment and dignity.

My childhood experiences have taught me to be cautious about learners' emotional well being and how it impacts on their academics and all spheres of life. I thus endeavour to be fair, just, loving, kind in speech and action; as well as available for them to open up whenever necessary.

Happy moments

- When plan to take me to a day secondary school was changed and now taken to a boarding high school.

Unpleasant moment

When I lost my parents

People who had positive impact on me

My late uncle Marcus Odongo Atang'a, my cousins, Grandmother

People who had Negative impact on me

High handed high prefects who bullied us while we were in form 1.

Positive impact- Has helped me to continue encouraging my learners the benefits of being disciplined and working hard in their studies.

Negative impact- Never look down upon other students .

Rights I enjoyed- Right to education.

Experiences that made me happy.

Playing with friends, visiting neighbours and nearby relatives freely,present parents,good relationships with siblings,doing home chores together..

Unpleasant experiences.

Walking long distance s to school.

Walking barefoot.

Not always clean.

Could be sent out late.

Could not afford many personal effects..

Positive impact.

Teamwork spirit,good relationship with peers,hard working,secure.

Negative impact.

Low self esteem,,,feeling interior for not having everything..

Unresolved issues.

Parents ought to have been more careful.

Could have taken care of our health better.

Could have been keen on our personal effects.

Rights enjoyed.

Visiting friends and relatives.

Playing.

Sharing.

Education.

Worship.

Rights denied.

Being children-_worked alot.

Provision of personal effects.

Proper medical care.

Lessons learnt.

Children require to be taken care of in order to grow properly.

They should be provided with basic needs.

Their rights must not be denied.

They should live in a secure environment.

They do should be heard recognized and their abilities appreciated.

1.) Happy experiences: when i was taken to kisumu for a tour being among the top ten in performance.   

2.) Unpleasant experience : Given punishment beyond the mistake committed.    

3.) My class teacher std 6-8.   

4.) Those who had negative impact : bully learner's.  

5.) Mentored me to become a teacher.  

       Step. 2

1) Enjoyed rights - Rights to protection.  

Pleasant experience is that I was taken to agricultural show.

Unpleasant memory.

When I was almost raped in form 2.

The pleasant memory made me take agriculture in my high school and scored an A in KCSE.

The unpleasant memory has made me fear walking alone in the evening.and fear darkness

Happy experiences were:

visiting relatives

playing with friends

being bought good things ( edible snacks) or gifts

Unpleasant experiences were, being bullied by  other learners, being shouted at and beaten, being laughed at for making a mistake.

three people who had greatest impact include my late grand mother, uncle and aunt

 hostile neighbours and learners at school, an abusive caregiver all had negative impact.

The positive experiences have shaped me to be friendly, considerate, warm and generous to wards other people.

Negative experiences have caused me to be hyper cautious in cautious and at times too trusting, forming real attachments take time, sensitive to scrutiny, inability to ask assistance from people not well known to me.

i enjoyed the rights to life  ,education, medical care, feeding

Rights abused were freedom to speech, and safety

From my experiences, I can pick consideration for others' feelings, Taking time to understand why one is the way they are and not mocking others when they err 

Experiences that made me happy:

I received a lot of love,care,concern and protection from my parents and siblings.

Unpleasant experiences:

We were very poor and worse still,my dad died when I was in class seven so I lacked most of the basic needs.

The people who had the greatest positive impact in my life were my mum and my brothers.They held my hand and led me through life.Their wise counsel is still fresh in my mind even today.Actually they were used by God to make the person I am today.

The people who had a negative impact on my life were my other relatives from the extended family because they despised and discriminated against us just because we were poor and they created a lot of mistrust which exists even today.

The rights I enjoyed:

1.Survival rights.

2.Developmental rights.

3.Protection rights.

4.Participational rights.

Because of my childhood experiences,I normally find myself so much interested in children who come from poor families and I would like to continue encouraging them and protecting their rights especially against discrimination.

happy moments: passing exams 

unpleasant moments: loss of dad

Happy experiences 

1.playing with friends 

2.visiting relatives

3.School

4.Food and clothing 

Unpleasant experience 

1.punishment

2.Bullying 

3.Bad friends 

Positive impact-parents,siblings,relatives,

Negative impact-some friends, some schoolmates 

One of the happy moments in my childhood was when I scored a goal for my team against our opponents from a neighboring school.

My worst experience was when I was bullied by an older boy who had a father while I came from a single parent family. I had no father figure to report to. I hate it to date. 

My teacher of English touched my heart. She used to give me compositions to write, story books to read and encouragement that I would make it in life. I'm greatly indebted to her. I'm a teacher because of her.

The bully lowered my self-esteem. I hated myself for not having a father figure. This, has made me try fill the gap  of the most vulnerable children. 

I enjoyed freedom of expression at home. I could share freely with my parent.

I didn't enjoy much freedom of association among some older boys who had father figures.

1 happy moments _passed my CPE and joined a boarding school, having teachers on practice 

2Unpleasant moments _loss of my dad and left tocare for my sick mumat a tender age 

3 positive impact_family members and family friends pastor 

Negative impact _hostile neighborhood with negative comments about uswhich created fear

B. Rights enjoyed _basic rights, freedom of worship and play, parental protection security and care. 

Rights abused _association 

Lessons picked _love and respect all. Promote education for knowledge is power

Happy experiences: playing, having toys , love from Grandmother.

Unpleasant: mother being absent from my life, teasing for disability,being left with relatives.

Person's of

Positive impacts: Grandmother,Dad, class 1-3  and class 6 maths teachers, Sunday School teachers.

Negative impacts: family of mum's step brother,,

Positive influences: good health, self confidence,some degree of assertiveness, being firm and born again.

Negative influences: lowered self esteem, fearful of violence.

No unresolved issues,sought counselling already.

Enjoyed rights to:proper feeding, education,play.

Abused: safety, love, acceptance

Pleasant experiences in my childhood:

* A very loving and caring mum,

* Protected by my Mum and older siblings,

* A lot of play time with peers.

Unpleasant experiences:

* Sleeping hungry some times,

* Being bullied by older peers,

* Beaten by teachers when I couldn't complete homework,

People who had positive impact in my life are: My Mum, sisters and my headteacher, Sr. Honoratta Tesha.

People who had negatively affected my life: Harsh neighbour who who didn't allow us to interact with her children, terming us as poor neighbours who should not play with her children. Some teachers were extremely brutal,in the sense that they would come to class and begin by asking hard questions, of which we would be beaten when we failed to get the questions right.

Positive impacts have made me what I am today

Happy experiences

.Passing exam

.Participating in sports

Unpleasant experiences

.Being sent out for school fees
Person who had positive impact

.My mother
How positively it influenced my life

.I worked hard in school not to disappoint her

Negative influencers

. being unreasonably too hard

Unresolved issues

Being too harsh

Happy experiences- when being rewarded after topping in class 

Unpleasant- when sick

Positive- teachers, pastors, church leaders 

Rights enjoyed - education, shelter, food, protection 

Being shown love by my parents.

Lack of school fees .

My parents.

Those who talked ill by people because of problems.

Made me feel uplifted.

Made me never think ill of others.

Most of issues are resolved.

I was so happy when I received a jacket as a gift from my nagging dad

Domestic violence was so unpleasant to me, I was so much hurt when my mom was beaten 😭😭. I felt like dad should just die to relieve my mom from the brutality.

- I enjoyed attending school and church,playing with others, birthday celebrations,visiting grand parents.

- My unpleasant experiences included doing too much house chores as the first  girl in the family,being at home with a brother who was hooked to drugs,taking a bath in the evening and not morning even when I reached age of menstruation.

- People with positive influence in my life were my parents,teachers and pastors.

-Persons with negative influence were my brother.

- The positive experiences influence my current life experiences in that having attended school,I am independent.Church has enabled me to be God fearing.I am able to socialise well with others.

- My negative experiences have influenced my life in that I still don't relate well with my brother,I don't easily talk about my issues,I am more of a lone ranger.

- Yes there are one or two unresolved issues to be addressed.

- The rights I enjoyed were right to education and other basic needs,life, freedom of worship,expression.

- Abused rights is that at times I felt I was undergoing child labour.

- Lessons learnt from my experiences is that our past or formative experiences greatly affect our future.So to help learners have a bright future I should give them a safe environment.

Step 1

 Experience that made me happy 

  .Visit the Great rift valley

   .Graduating with a bachelor's degree

People who made me happy 

    .mum 

   .cu patron Mr munyao 

People with negative impact 

  . dad

  . relationship 

Unresolved issues 

 . relationship 

 STEP 2

 RIGHTS I HAVE ENJOYED 

 .Care from my parents 

 .right to education 

Rights abused 

 .none 

Lessons learnt 

 .I should appreciate and always remember those who have positively impacted my life

Both my parents gave me the best

None

The positive experiences made me who I am today

None

Experiences that make ma happy 

.Love ,support and provision from my parents 

Unpleasant Experiences 

Being denied food any time  I wronged 

It helped me to be well mannered 

Negative Experiences made me some correction methods 

I enjoyed the right to, adulation, play,health 

Abused right was that of sleeping hungry 

I'm a better parent to my children 

I'm able to protect the rights of children 

I enjoyed playing and having fun with friends, being bought new things. Reward for being top in class.

Bad experiences were being sick and getting scars on the face,   being  canned by.my step mother all the time and Canning at school

Rewards made me work hard in academics.

Canning by one teacher made me miss school, low self esteem due to scars.

Going to school

Being caned

Parents

Some friends

Give love to others do not trust all people

No.                         

Right to education

Socialization

Education is good

Step 1.happy experiences, when I passed my kcse exams,

2.unplesant experiences,losing my dad

3.posirive impacts, parents, older siblings, teachers,pastors

4,neibours, friends

Happy :when I passed my k.c.p.e 

Sad:when i lost my grand father

Positive impact;from parents, siblings, teachers and friends

Step2

Not practiced.

Pleasant  experience:

When I performed  well and was taken for a tour.

Unpleasant:

I was constantly punished by my maths  teacher because  he/she is not performing well. It made me develop negative attitude towards  the subject.

Happy experiences 

When i was the top three pupile in our zone.

When we visited the Nyumba ya Mungu in Tanzania.

Awarded as the best Sunday school leader in our church.

Unpleasant experiences

When i lost my uncle.

When i failed to achieve my dream career.

My parents had a great positive impact in my life.

My primary deskmate used to bully me alot.

Rights enjoyed

Right to education, good health and shelter. What i learnt :

Never undermine anyone because noone knows what tomorrow holds.

Happy experience:when I did well in my exams and I received praises and gifts.

Unpleasant experience: when my dad passed away.

Persons with positive impact:my dad my mum,my teacher.

Lessons learnt:I have to be patient with others all people are not the same.

Rights enjoyed: education,life,to be fed.

Happy experience- Going on trips during holidays.

Sad experience-  Losing a loved one.

A person who had great impact on me- parents and teachers.

Negative impact was from some classmates and neighbours.

The positive experiences motivated me to work hard because they were associated with performance.

I don't have any unresolved issues.

I enjoyed the right to education, health, food,shelter and clothing.

No right of mine was abused.

Lessons I learnt are being patient, understanding, being confident and determined in life.

Happy experience..when I passed my exams...sad loosing my parents.. support from aunts...being bullied at school because of lacking some basic needs

Happy moments

When l passed K.C.P.E  exams

Playing with other children chababa na chamama.

This has helped me to learn how to socialize positively.

Unpleasant situations

When l lost my dad.

This made me more responsible in life.

Passing exam

Negative experience-parent separation

Positive impact grandparents, aunt uncle

Rights I enjoyed- basic need, education, 

Abused right love from parents,, hostile environment

1. Happy experiences for me included:- Christmas and new year celebrations

unpleasant experiences included: - when I would be caned in school

                                                                grazing goats over the weekends and holidays

Persons of great positive  influence  are my parents and siblings

persons who  impacted negatively are some of my teachers who made me dislike some subjects and some                         learners too

Those who imacted me ppositively made me work hard in school and helped me develop a high self esteem and

                self worth

Those who had negative impact on me made me dislike some subjects hence drift our from my dream career

I have no  unresolved issues

2. The rights I enjoyed include Right to education, good health, shelter food and clothing

                                        right to protection and parental love and care

No right was abused

lessons from my experiences that would help me play bigger roles in protecting rights of learners is to ensure a I    always help  help learners without discouraging them

pleasant  experience:

when I performed  well and was taken for a tour.

unpleasant:

I was constantly punished by my maths  teacher because  I was not performing well.It made me develop negative attitude towards  the subject.

Happy experience s, schooling,Sunday school lessons,vacation Bible School lessons, spending time with grand ma,playing with peers. Bad experiences, Bully learners,Some teachers hurting remarks. 2 Some children rights and protection were denied.3 will ensure that children w

Step 1

1. Good performance in Kcpe and admission to a good school

2. Irresponsible parents.

3. Mother,elder sister,uncle , pastor.

4. Abusive school mates.

5. Enable me face life confidently and be positive.

6. Hesitant in decision making.

7. No resolved issues .

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Step 2

1. Education,healthcare

2. Protection, play.

3. Know my roles and do them well.

The experiences that made me happy include being bought for presents because of performing well in school 

Unpleasant experiences- parents not being able to afford all basic needs 

People who impacted on my life were my parents,  teachers and people who excelled in their studies especially those who would get degrees 

Those with negative impact- friends 

-Pleasant experience

Motherly love and care

-unpleasant

Lack of enough feeding

Poor housing

- positive impact from my mother and father

- negative influence from step mother

Effects of experience

Helped me know how to handle my children

Taught me the importance of giving

1  reporting  form  one

2 loss of dad

3good friend s

4 bullying  learners

Happy experience s:when I got a sponsor to secondary

Bad experiences: when I was monolised

Experiences that made me happy is every time I came home with my report form and my Mum would be so excited at my passing. 

It was very unpleasant for me every time Dad and Mum quarreled  and Dad assaulted my Mum. Their differences became worse to an extent that Dad neglected us and remarried. 

My Mum loved me and cherished me she had such faith in me... She taught me to have faith. 

On the other hand, my Dad made me to have a very low self _esteem when he rejected our family and left us for the Second family. 

Positive experiences have taught me to bring out the best in others... To give them hope that what they are going through shall come to pass. 

They don't I have learnt to overcome them and move since there is no need to cry over spilt milk. 

No I am at peace I have learnt how to forgive and to forget.. 

Experience that made me very happy.When I was in std 6 I was bought blue shoes for my cousin's wedding.Unpleasant memories are when I lost my daughter at her tender age .some of the people who have impacted positively in my life include parents and my daughters.Those who impacted negatively are work mates.My life was negatively affected when we nearly divorced and my marriage has never been the same again.positively my father gave me part of wealth.Unresolved issues include a family gathering that has not yet taken place.

Experiences  that made me happy  when  I passed  well in my CPE.

Experiences that were unpleasant when  I lost  my grandfather it was my first  time to see a dead person. 

A person who has the greatest impact in my life  my mother.

Negative impact   Teachers who use abusive language.

How positive experiences  influence my current  life encouraging people  that  nothing lasts forever even our troubles  have an end.

Negative  experiences    everyone has a  right to be listened to I got traumatized when my teacher did not listened to me  when I had a problem.

No unresolved  issues.

Step 2     Rights I enjoyed 

Right to live

Right  to education

Right to Basic needs

Right to medical care.

Rights which were abused 

Right to be listened to

Lessons  learned from  my experiences  in protecting  rights of learners.

Children have to be given chance to express their feelings  and be guided  accordingly.

.

When I was picked to be a flower girl.

Unpleasant, when my parents disagreed.

Positive impact,Good friends,neighbours.

Negative,intimidation.

Denied right of expression.

1.a) Experiences that made me happy- Playing all games when I was a kid.Living with my cousins during holiday breaks.

b)Unpleasant  experience-One of my uncle was violent and it always freaked me out.
c)People who made a positive impact My brother and parents.

d)How I'm influenced- Due to socializing I am confident,believe in myself,good leader.

e)Negative impact-I get scared when someone shouts at me or becomes violent towards others.

f)No unresolved issues.

2.Rights enjoyed-Right to education,health,shelter,clothing, freedom of association,expression,worship.

Lesson learnt from my experiences is that the formative years are very important to a child and it is important to allow them express themselves so as to help them when need arises

1.A happy when my dad took my mu

m for an outing.

.Unpleasant experience:parents separating.

.who influence me positively;

my mum

.who influence me negatively;my primary mathematic teacher.

The positive influence has taught me to preserve.

.Negative influence currently made me hate teaching maths.

No issue to be addressed.

2.Right to be protected

.Abuse right

.Maternal love

.child protection

 A visit to my sister who lived at Muranga town then, she bought new clothes for me

we picked a quarrel and fought with a friend

parents and my siblings 

some friends and schoolmates 

lack of trust to people

have no unresolved issues 

Good memories:

Journey to Mombasa in class 8

Sad moments:

When I lost my job.

 Basic needs were provided in a secure family environment made me happy. There was alot of interaction with other children in school too.

The punishment in school especially caning, being scolded at home for prismly reasons had negative impact..remaining shy for sometimes

My parents and my sister who was a teacher in high school made positive impact in my life, upto today these are positive reinforcement 

There are no engraved incidents which negatively affects my life 

Happy experiences

When I passed my exams

Unpleasant experience

When I lacked fee

Q1. - my experience that made me happy is when I passed my KCSE examination

- my unpleasant experience is when I encountered a snake bite

- The people who had a positive impact in my life are my 3 primary teachers and my dad

- The people who had negative impact in my life are my primary colleagues who used to persuade me to sneak out of school

- My positive experiences made me to be a teacher

- My negative experiences affected my performance 

Q2. I enjoyed the following rights

1. Right to life 

2. Right to education

3. Right to good health

4. Right of basic needs like food, shelter and clothing

My right that were Abused is right to socialization

From my experiences, I learnt that learners should be given chance to expresse their feelings

Happy experience 

During my happy birthday 

Unpleasant 

Being cained by my mother

Happy  experience:

When travelling to  rural in my dad's  pick up.

Waste  expriences:

Money given  when going to school was too little  as it included  my fare . I was  always asked to take  care  because  I will  not get more cash  yet I knew  my parents  were able. 

The good thing about it I am able to  manage  my  cash.

Experiences that i enjoyed-playing, going to school and going to church.

Experiencrs I didn't like-bring beaten  by teachers and being bullied.

People who influenced my life positively- my teachers, my parents and spiritual Leaders

Positive impact-im s teacher like my teachers and parents.

Right denied- right to medication and protection

Right enjoyed-right to education

Rights enjoyed:Right to speech

Right to live

Right to religion

Right to movement

Right to speech

I would encourage people to allow and give their students time to express themselves

Step1.Being love by parents when performed by well in school

Unpleasant moments when I lost my grandmother

My parents had positive impact in my life which made me responsible to date

Some of my friends had negegative impact which has made  me not to trust people fully anymore

Lack of understanding fro some teachers

Step 2 Freedom of speech and expression and the rights to be understood by people

Learner requires to be given a chance to express their feelings and be guided accordingly

.

EXPERIENCES MY CHILD HOOD.

. POSITIVE.

Performing well in school primary and secondary.

Visiting my grand parents.

My Birthday party.

These have shaped my life and my carrier . making my dreams  fulfilled.

NEGATIVE.

When my parents died it was miserable experience,I didn't knew how to cope with situation.

These negative experiences have trained me to stand and fight for myself , in anything I want to pursue for my success.

. The people who had positive impact in my life are,my parents, friends, Teachers and church members.

. People who had negative impact to my child hood:_my Agriculture teacher who denied me my marks  which I had gotten right,I didn't take as my  carrier subject.

.The Rights I enjoyed are, Right to EDUCATION.

Food.

Shelter.

Parental care

Clothing.

. What I have learnt from my childhood experiences is that they play a very important role in moulding individuals future life.

Experiences that made me happy: being allowed time freedom to be self driven, and space to be alone and Quiet _i crave to be alone at times.unpleasant experiences was verbal abuse_ in mother tongue it sounded Soo bad___feaces that are rained on and also saliva spit on my forehead at the same time.that one was sweeping away my self esteem.My uncle rewarded hard work influencing me positively. My dad caned and judged me so much, killing self drive. I  reward my learners , something I learnt from my uncle,.I  prefer listening to a case before deciding,alot of supervision puts me off . Rights I enjoyed was freedom to education, and protection from abusive relatives, since we were not to visit relatives without a proper plan_though we could not understand then. For the learners I encourage them to stay with parents or responsible guardians so long as they are under 18, to avoid being taken advantage of by people who may abuse them .

Step 1

When I was bought school shoes for the first while I was in class 8

My parent told me that there was no High School fee

One of my youth leaders in church

Some relatives and our neighbours

The positive experience made me to focus more on academics

The negative experience taught me never to despise anyone

Step 2

Right to education 

Right to good health 

Celebrating Christmas days,

Being bought for clothes.

Bad experience 

Growing up without a dad

1.When I was admitted to  highschool. 

2.denied an opportunity  to continue with my  studies in high school  for 2yrs.

3 My cousin  by the  name Diana. 

4 My highschool  friends 

5 postively  they encouraged me  to  work  as a labourer  in one of the  farms during some school  days.  and payed for  my fee. 

Positively  they made acquire  life skills 

6.They wasted me for the  sake of  education 

Negative  impacts  made work  hard. 

8.Need for the  government to help need students  to acquire  education  to the  fullest. 

Experience the made me happy.. My dad gave us the best.. Happy home 

Loss of my dad 

My dad my husband 

My fir boyfriend lol! 

Positive influence made me to be who i am today a good mum, wife and men 

Were it not for him i would be much be than i am today 

No unresolved issues 

Rights i enjoyed. Education. Foods love and shelter 

No rights abused 

Al be my bed in everything i do 

I enjoyed full protection , basic needs though it was through toiling by my parents, however i was denied freedom of association which i guess would have helped me in choosing the right partner for myself

My principal at Mayori sec impacted me possitively plus my parents

Good experiences(birthday party,cousin's forum and party,passing CPE exam)

Bad experience(loss of my dad and mum harassment by my brother)

Good passing enabled me get a good job

Right I enjoyed ,right to education

Right denied ,freedom from torture

Lesson ,no one should torture a child

1.Happy experience. When I passed my K.C.P.E and my father took me to Nairobi  for shopping. 

2.unpleasant experience. A punishment we were given in class seven to fetch water using our mouth.

3.persons who had positive impact on my life. My parents and some teachers. 

4.negative impact. My neighbours daughter. 

5.they moulded me to the person I am today.

1. When I secured a chance at University

2. When my students do not meet set targets.

3. Pastors, older siblings.

4. My neighbors.

2. No experience at all

Take a walk down memory lane into your childhood;

• Note down the experiences that made you happy. when my dad bought me the school bag that I had always wanted to have. 

• Note down the experiences that were unpleasant. when i was denied a chance to form the team that was going to represent our school in football.

• Identify the person(s) who had the greatest positive impact in your life. my dad, my mom, 

• Identify those who had a negative impact on your life. no one specific

• How do the positive experiences influence your current life experiences? I am where am because of what they taught me in life

• Are there unresolved issues that you need to address? no

Step 2:

• What rights do you think you enjoyed? right to education and protection, 

• What rights did you think were abused? none that i can think of.

• What lessons can you pick from your experience that would help you play a bigger role in protecting the rights of your learners? children are delicate and extremely dependent on adults and therefore we should offer them all the support they need from us. a child`s experience always spills over into their later life, we therefore should be very careful how we handle the children

-Experience that made me happy; first time going to a cinema hall when i was in class five with my dad

Unpleasant experience; being caned in primary school by all teachers because we had failed exams.

Positive impact - my dad and my class 3 teacher

Negative impact- Maths teacher in class 7

I am generous to those who are in need due to my dad's influence and becoming a teacher

I hated maths due to the negative impact of my maths teacher, i also don't like caning learners

I have no unresolved issue.

The rights I enjoyed were education, food, shelter and love

The lessons i learnt is to treat students like human beings who have a mind and i can facilitate their thinking and steer it to the right place and not by force of the cane.

Lenah

Happy experiences

Being escorted for Christmas shopping by my father and brothers.

Unhappy experience.

When I lost my mother 

My father and my teachers influence my life positively.

Was affected negatively some of my teachers.

I therefore missed the right of proper communication.

My father also over protected me.He was there for me and could talk my behalf always. I could not communicate well.l also developed low self-esteem.

I have learned from my experience to show love , teach communication skills, and allow them to interact by giving conducive environment.

1. Being rewarded for position 1 made mW happy. 2.

Unpleasant experience, lack of basic needs, canning and being scolded.

3. My mother had the greatest impact

4. My aunt had the greatest negative impact

5. Positive experience have made me a teacher

6. Negative experience have made me cautious in making comments about people. I avoid negative ones.

7. I don't have unresolved issues.

Happy experiences.

Taken to the National Assembly sessions

Unpleasant experiences

The day my mother beated me terribly because i went to throw stones to  a beehive of our neighbour.

I discourage bullying and evil acts

People impacts are family and friends

Experiences that made me happy- being with my family and doing things together

Unpleasant ones- losing both parents

Mum had the greatest impact in my life. Her constant reminder that i had to do well in school made me stay focused on academics even when she was no more

I enjoyed the right to food , clothing , shelter and protection

As a first born I was considered to older enough not to play but to take care of my younger siblings.

Children should be given enough time to play

Happy Experiences

When I always became position One in school and finally when I passed my K.C.P.E exams and I was able to Join High school despite the fact that I came from a very humble background..

Unpleasant experience

-staying at home for long due to lack of school fee.

- Growing up without knowing who my father was.

Persons with the greatest positive Impact in my life.

- My late grand mum ,My mum , my Aunt,Teachers ,older siblings and genuine friends

Persons with negative impact in my life

Learners from good families who bully and despises the humble ones

Significance / impact 

I felt intimidated by their bullies as they would not allow me a chance to have my own freedom of expression .

Enjoyed rights include :

Right to Education , protection, Right to parental love.

Lesson learned ,There is no permanent condition in life .it is also good to treat others fairly  because we may need their help at one point in our life time.

Down my memory lane

Happy experiences

A wonderful trip to maasai mara during class 8 tour

Unpleasant experiences

The sad news of my brothers death

Positive impacts

Encouragement from parents and teachers

Negative impacts

Some teachers who always call children funny names

Child rights was denied at all times

Lesson: it is not good to undermine other people and deny their. Opinions

Happy experiences.

Passing my kcpe exams.

Unpleasant.

Almost dropped out of school for lack school fees. 

Child protection denied. 

Positive influencers. 

Parents.siblings ,teachers and pastors

Happy experience: being taken to show ground 

Unpleasant experience: losing my mum  

People who impacted me positively: my parents. 

Those who impacted me negatively: some cousins

Experience that made me happy.

When I got employed by TSC

Unpleasant experience

When I lost my child

Person who made greatest impact in my life is my dad,my mother and my high school principal Mr Andanje Enock.

Those who made negative impact in my life;

My Ant,Ayasi. She used to beat us

Positive experience influence my life by;

- Advocating for pupils to wear shoes as they come to school.

-Encouraging learners to work hard for them to be rewarded.

Negative experience influence my current life by feeling was stigmatized.

No resolved issue though still remember.

Rights that I enjoyed;

-shelter, education,food, clothing by my parents.

Rights that were abused.

- privacy by my pupils, speech.

Lesson;never undermine your fellow pupil,worker

I enjoyed playing and having fun with friends, being bought new things. Reward for being top in class.

Bad experiences were being sick and getting scars on the face, being attacked by thugs at night.. Was a nightmare. Canning at school

Rewards made me work hard in academics.

Canning by one teacher made me miss school, low self esteem due to scars.

I enjoyed playing and having fun with friends.

Bad experiences were being canned by my parents for playing too long.

Am a better mother today due to the discipline actions taken on me then.

1.Childhood

2.Buying me new clothes

Presents on xmass day

Good meals at home

3.Being caned after dropping in class

Repeating a class

Being talked to in a harsh voice

4.Father and Mother

5.My class 4 science teacher

6.Influenced my career

7.Bad attitude towards the teacher

8.No

Step 2

Rights I enjoyed

1.Right to Education

2.Right life

Rights Abused

1.Right to movement

Lessons-Taking things positively.

happy experience

when  i passed my form 4 in the Kenya certificate of Education to enable join form 5.

pleasant experience enable to join High School

Unpleasant experience

when a teacher swapped my C.P.E mathematics script with another's who was not good in mathematics. So I got a poor grade in it.  

Negative experience made not get into a National School in form 1 

Happy experiences

When i was recognised as the best artist and having the best handwriting while in class 5

Unpleasant experiences

Being sent out of school for fees with insults from the principal

People who made positive impact: My dad nad my mom

People who nade negative impact: My neighbour and some relatives

Positive impact boosted my self esteem and made me work hard to be who I am today

Negative impact almost killed my dreams, inculcated a feeling of self denial. 

Rights enjoyed: association,  education, parental care

Rights abused: expression,  play freedom from torture. 

I will ensure that children know their rights and freedoms and they are respcted to the latter.

Step 1.

Playing ,dancing and singing.

It was unpleasant for me when I was beaten for attending a crusade without notifying my parents.

Step 2.

Rights enjoyed.food shelter clothing  and education.

• Note down the experiences that made you happy.When my dad was alive

• Note down the experiences that were unpleasant.when I lost my parents, growing up in the hands of my step mom, living a terrible life in high school because I lacked the basic needs, marrying young and wrong patner

• Identify the person(s) who had the greatest positive impact in your life.My dad

• Identify those who had a negative impact on your life.My step mom,my marriage patner

• How do the positive experiences influence your current life experiences?It drives me to work hard

• How do the negative experiences influence your current life experiencesre there unresolved issues that you need to address?Before knowing myself about the childhood trauma I underwent,I could project it to my surrounding.Though I'm coming out of it, I'm still struggling with some issues like anger management,fear,self esteem

Step 2:

• What rights do you think you enjoyed? right of expression, right to live

• What rights did you think were abused? freedom of expression when I lost my parents

• What lessons can you pick from your experience that would help you play a bigger role in protecting the rights of your learners?I have worn the shoes,I know how it pinches that's what drive me to be an ambassador of child protection

 Happy: visiting my aunts and uncles

Unpleasant: Taking on the parent role too early

Greatest impact: Father

Positive impact in current life: I learnt how to be organized with finances and loved teaching because of my father.

No unresolved issues at the moment.

Step 2:

I enjoyed being protected by my father and my elder brothers.

As a first born girl I took on adult responsibilities pretty early.

I pick some lessons from my brothers who protected me from any outside bullies.

Happy experience

My journey in primary school  with the support of my mother.

Bad experience

When my dad was jailed at class one.... after being implicated with a false scandle.

Positive impacts,good friends who guided me well,Negative impacts..bad friends who almost put me into big trouble coz of peer pressure

Step 2.

Not being guided properly as far as my carrier choice is concerned,which made me wallow into wrong courses before settling down to be a teacher.

Happy moments-christmast moments

Unpleasant-mother so sick.

Positive impact-good parents,care givers,and religious parents.

Negative-cohersed by some tchers back in primary.

Rights denied-no one cared

Every time our parents would take us with them to church, to town or visiting friends made me happy as well as buying for us gifts especially during Christmas.

My unpleasant time was when my parents would be away from us for even a few days,home felt insecure. My first experience in a boarding school was unpleasant since everyone was new to me.

These experiences made me build independence. and courage.

I have no unresolved issues.

I enjoyed the right to basic needs and parental care as they ensured health care for me when I was sick.

The experiences help me in desiring to help learner to overcome such challenges as well as create an environment which let's them freely express themselves to me.

1,loving family members. Going to school and having a strong parental support.                                negative. Being made to repeat class to creat a gap with my sister.                                                          3.it helped me to continue with education and excel.                                                                                 4.felt less important .                                                    5.no.                                                                                  I enjoyed right to heath care,life,education, basic need.                                                                                  7.no one

Happy moments

My parents loved, supported me and provided my basic needs

In school during gymnastics and music competition and winning. Also my class 3,4,5 and 8 class teachers who were really caring.

Sad moments

When caned by the  teachers especially the one who taught maths and music

Effects, disliked the teachers and their subjects.

Greatest influences my parents and the teachers.

Not punishing students unfairly 

Happy experience: topping throughout primary school. It built my self esteem and made me believe in self.

Unpleasant experience: caning. Some teachers over caned us. Made me fearful.

Happy experiences: being rewarded during Christmas

Unpleasant experience: taking care of the animals the whole day

In my childhood I enjoyed right to be loved, play, protected and education 

The rights abused were, right to be loved and cared for by both parents 

Because of my childhood experience children need to be protected from any form of abuse 

Birhday  party  made  me  happy

however,I  was  not  given  new  pair  of  shoes  as  agreed.

My  parents imparcted  my  life  positively

My  neigbours were   stubborn and impacted  me  negatively

Today  my  esteem  is  raisedb for the  positive  influence  then.

The  negative   influence  then  have nothing  to  do  with todays  life

No   unresolved   issues   at  the moment

Experience which made me happy: taken to showground, supplied with basic needs.

Unpleasant: neglected by my father.

Mother and siblings had positive impact in my life.

My father had negative impact.

I appreciate what's available.

Yes, child negligence needs to be addressed.

Step2:

Rights enjoyed: food, health, education.

Rights abused: love, freedom.

I can socialize with my learners.

I can protect their rights by giving them freedom of expression and ensure they get basic needs from parents.

Happy experienced 

When I went to Naivasha as family trip

Unpleasant experienced 

When school organised education trip and all my classmates paid but my guardian refused to pay my trip especially my aunt the wife of my uncle. 

Rights enjoyed 

Education, clothes and food 

Impact Positive persons 

Parents and relatives 

Negative impact persons 

My paternal uncle 

Positive 

My father and my uncle and friends 

Positive experience 

Positive response made me to be hardworking person and courageous up to now. It made me to

have strong self esteem. 

Negative experience 

It made me to have grudges towards my paternal aunt and uncle. 

Right enjoyed 

Education, clothes 

Rights not enjoyed 

Play and food 

From experienced I  protect the child and offer what he or she needs most and making happy. 

Pleasant experiences 

playing with my peers,role playing adults.

2.Unpleasant experiences

Not being to my dream school.

Punishment from trs n parents

Forced work by teachers

3.Good persons

My mother,father ,teachers,siblings

4.bad person

Bullying friends

5.Positive influences

Am able to socialize with anybody.am educated,experience has always served as the best teacher

Happy experiences; when I passed my KCPE and KCSE with flying colors

Unpleasant experiences; when I lost my closest friend as a result of tragic road accident

Positive impacts; my parents and friends

Negative impacts; unfriendly teachers and relatives

Right I have enjoyed; right to acquire education 

Right abused; sometimes freedom of expression is denied

I was educated and education is everything

Happy ...a visit to museum

Unpleasant... losing my father

Person... spouse

Negative...bully learners

Right to medication

Susan Cheruiyot.

1When my netball team won the regional match.

2.When I attained less marks than anticipated in CPE.

Great impact.

My biology teacher.

Negative impact.

A lady teacher who was very harsh.

The right to food,shelter,clothing,education.

I will always try to protect the rights of children by providing a conducive  learning environment

Happy experiences 

When I ever fell in love and realized I was loved back.

Unpleasant experiences 

When I felt my family turned against me.

The person who had a greatest positive impact in my life was my maternal uncle. He would regularly remind me the benefits of hardwork and success. 

On the other hand a person I perceived to have loved so much betrayed me. I almost hated everything and everyone around me. 

Positive experience I had earlier has made me realise the need to always work hard and remain positive in all I do.

I have so many family unresolved issues that need to be addressed but by who??? I have personal unresolved issues that I'm unable to deal with. 

I enjoyed being in school,shelter and being provided by the most relevant necessities. 

Right to freedom was violated to some point especially as a child I when I couldn't associate freely with my fellow children at some point. 

Play is a key thing in the life of any child. Every child has a right to play and associate with other peers freely 

Pleasant moments

Playing chakitoto and eating lantana fruits as l walked home with my friends after school in primary

Unpleasant

Canes after an exam especially map work in GHC

People who had a positive impact in my life

My mom, she would always remind me that masomo, discipline, respect and knowing God, go hand in hand. I have grown up to be a disciplined God fearing lady.

People who had a negative impact

Thieves and robbers who twice broke into our house,took everything,left my dad with deep cuts on the head. I have grown up to hate disco matanga because were it not for it, neighbors would have saved us.

1.Pleasant experiences 

playing with my peers,role playing adults

2.Unpleasant

Punishment from trs n parents

Forced work by teachers

3.Good persons

My mother,teachers,siblings

4.bad person

Bully friends

5.Positive influences

Am able to socialize with anybody.am educated,experience has always served as the best teacher

•  rights I think you enjoyed is right to education

• rights I think were abused are of expression

•  lessons I can pick from my experience that would help me play a bigger role in protecting the rights of r my learners are I should have a listening ear to students

step 1- going out for tours with both parents

          -left by mum for further studies

        - friends at school

         - my policies are based on them

       - few friends but am so assertive

      - no

step2- right to education and care

          - none

          - they need to be raised well and taken care of

1.Pleasant Experiences @ Childhood;

Playing local football with my peers.

Swimming with my peers.

Sharing meals during Christmas.

Eating various foods during Christmas.

2.Unpleasant Experiences;

Corporal punishment from my parents and teachers.

Going to bed hungry as a punishment.

Denied play time.

Walked to school barefooted.

Forced labour by teachers.

3.Good persons;

My mother.

My high school teachers.

My paternal grandparents.

My siblings.

4.Bad persons;

Overstrict teachers and parents.

Bad friends.

Bad neighbors.

5.Influences of +ve influences;

I am able to socialize and make friends easily.

I am physically fit and healthy.

I am educated and resourceful.

I give back to the community.

Happy experiences: Everytime I was given a bursary after being position 1,

Unpleasant: when there was nothing to be eaten, when I passed and there was no school fees to take me to the school of choice.

2.loved playing, knowing how to cook.

3.Mum delaying at work place.

4.My mum.

Followed her footsteps in prayers.

Household was bad example.

Developed hatred.

Right to life,protection and food.

Not given a Chance in right to protection. 

Pleasant experience is when I use to top in class. Unpleasant is the mistreatment from step mother. 

Step 1 

1. When I first boarded a vehicle to Eldoret town 

2.When I wasn't bought a new dress for Christmas.

3. Grandmother.

4.Maternal aunt 

5. Short temper.

6. No.

Step 2

1.right to life 
   right to education

2.Freedom of association

3.Never to trust anyone easily

Happy moments, when l got my job.  Sad moments when I lost my dad.positive ,my mom and our siblings.negative ,a friend talked about my son when stayed for long without a job after university.

Happy Experiences

When  we went out for co curriculum activities

Unpleasant experience

When may brother married and his wife mistreated me

Positive impact

Was from my parents and some of the teachers

Negative impact

From other students bullying me

Experiences that i enjoyed-playing, going to school and going to church.

Experiencrs I didn't like-bring beaten  by teachers and being bullied.

People who influenced my life positively- my teachers my parents nuns in Church

Positive impact-im s teacher like my teachers and parents.

Right denied- right to medication and protection

Right enjoyed-right to education

1Happy experiences._

_When I passed class 8 and joined one of the prestigious schools in our region...i felt so optimistic that finally, I'll break the yoke of poverty in our home

2.Unpleasant experiences.

_Lack of support from my father

- high levels of poverty

3 Positive impacts.

My aunt, my mother, men of God and neighbors

4. The positive experiences taught me that hard work pays

5. Negative impacts.

Low self image due to poverty

Step 2:

Right to protection and provision were abused

Happy moments when I attended a wedding ceremony, unpleasant when I lost my sister, right bi enjoyed playing,  I will advise people to value other people right

Happy experiences._

_When I was taken to marsabit national park while in STD 8 .

2.Unpleasant experiences.

_Losing my father and my mother 

3 Positive impacts.

_Good friends & parents..

4Negative impacts.

_Some teachers & bully learners.

Step 2:

Right to protection was denied.

Happy experiences..being able to perform well in my primary school 

Unpleasant ...when my fell sick 

Positive impacts ...good Family

Negative impacts.......neighbours

Step 2

Protection of child denied

STEP 1

Happy experiences

When I visited my grandmother at kimilili.at the age of 3yrs

Unpleasant to experience

Losing my aunties,grandfather.and the 1992  tribal clashes...

Positive influencers

My parents - my role models,my Aunt - taught me to be hard working and my teachers taught me to be patient and discipline.

Negative influence

Caning in school  made me fear upto date I still fear the mention of a cane

STEP 2

Rights enjoyed were 1 basic needs 2 freedom of expression 3 movement 4 education

Rights abused were child labor and in awareness on children protection

Unresolved issue none as per now

What I have learned is that it's not enough to receive reports of children's concerns but rather to effectively and efficiently respond to them immediately.

Happy experiences 

When I did my form four exams which I passed and my Dad bought me a very smart dress as a present (gift) 

Unpleasant experience 

Denied right of expression 

Denied to participate in the co curriculum activities. 

Positive influencers 

My Dad, mum, my pastor and Husband who were supportive in my Education and life. 

I would encourage the learners to be self confident to avoid being involved in abuse. 

Inform them about effective ways to go. 

Listen to their parents. Inform them of their rights. Give them a chance to express themselves. 

Pleasant experiences;

• First to receive a note book in std1.

• Sitting in first row from the door;-best in mathematics.

• Boarding a train to Mombasa from Malaba.

Unpleasant experiences;-

• Slapped by the teacher during music festivals.

• Sleeping hungry for a couple of days.

• Made to eat ugali without a accompaniment after eating the reserved one.

Positive impact;-

My dad. He taught me;-

Hard work, Discipline, patience, determination, respect to oneself and others.

My uncle; adventure, good grooming and love.

Negative impact;-

My step mum- hatred.

Positive experiences;-

Prayerfulness

Respect

Honesty

Patience

Love

Negative experiences;-

Taught us to love and care unconditionally.

Unresolved issues;- 

Remembering the past.

Rights enjoyed;-

Education, Life, Shelter.

Rights abused;-

Economic rights.

Denial of freedom to expression.

Denial of food.

Lesson;- Respect, honesty among others leads to success.

I can teach my learners these values to achieve their goals.

1.being rewarded after my kcse good performance.

2.punishiments for not performing my duties.

3.my parents and friends 

Step 2

Right to education

Protection